Therapy

The more we learn about the brain, the more we can understand and address mental health issues. One of the most important findings of the last few decades was that, when a person experiences a traumatic event, the stress of the event fragments across other parts of the brain, and so treating it often means helping it get processed effectively. One way to do that is with EMDR. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) was…

Many mental health challenges are caused, in part, by life experiences. If a person experiences stresses, or traumas, or other types of difficulties, they can develop mental health issues that affect their lives. Working with a therapist, they can work through these issues and, eventually, put their life back on track. Yet we also know that some people seem to develop mental health issues with no clear cause: no clear trauma, no clear stresses. They…

We’re all trying to save money. We’re also all trying to address our mental health. That is why it is not uncommon to find a therapist that will take your insurance – someone that can provide you with excellent mental health support, but ideally with less out of pocket. The problem is that is much easier said than done. We accept NYSHIP here at Long Island Counseling, and we work with other carriers in various…

Stacy Pellettieri, LCSW-R Co-Founder at Long Island Counseling Calling all parents and educators! Let’s get real about “back to school!” For years I’ve seen well thought out posts and articles outlining advice that tells us that preparing for September means we must create a routine together, start going to bed early and getting up early and get supplies beforehand. This is not bad advice at all, but preparing to go back to school needs to…

Over the past several years, “good parenting” has been redefined. Sometimes for the better, but also sometimes for the worse. For example, these days, many parents do not feel like they are truly “Good Parents” unless their children are in extra curricular activities. Often, they’re expected to be in sports, dance, tutoring, and on and on. The idea of a child just coming home and sitting on the couch is frowned upon. It is objectively…

It’s hard to get over loss. That is why many people seek out grief counseling – to support those that need to talk to someone to overcome trauma and develop coping skills to get them to the next step in the recovery process. Stacy Pellettieri of Long Island Counseling Services has been continuing her mental health podcast, Why Do People Do That, and recently sat down with someone that had to overcome an immense loss…

Stacy Pellettieri, one of our founders, continues to make amazing content on her new podcast “Why Do People Do That.” This latest episode is especially timely here in New York, and on everyone’s mind of late. It’s about mental health, LOCAL elections, and the way we can care for ourselves and our community. Stacy of Long Island Counseling Services sat down with Suffolk County Legislator Rebecca Sanin. They talked about topics related to local elections…

Part of helping people through their mental health issues is deconstructing the myth of what therapy is and what is required to help you with your mental health. One reason that some people avoid therapy is because they “don’t like to talk about their feelings.” They choose not to get the mental health support they need because they don’t like to, don’t want to, or think they’re bad at sharing how they feel. But therapy…

There are many people that seek therapy because they’re in the middle of some immense struggling. They’re unable to manage their life while challenged with severe anxiety, depression, and other conditions that make it very difficult to function. But there are many others that do not quite fit this description. They have anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, or other issues, but on a day to day basis they’re able to manage their life in some way.…

There are different types of mental health conditions and ways that people can experience mental health issues. Personality disorders can be especially challenging. Unlike conditions such as anxiety and depression, those with personality disorders often do not know that they have these conditions, because it is a part of their “normal” – their reality. Often, as therapists, we use a person’s own insight into themselves to know more about them and help them get a…